Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda…

Posted on July 2nd, 2008 in Daily, Kids, School Days, You Know You're A Bad Mother When... by virginia

Poor poor website. You’ve been so neglected lately. Nearly 2 months without a post!

There were lots of things I could have written about like April getting the Golden Shoe award for the 2nd year in a row, Jon’s pseudo Prom date or even the last band concert of the year.

Mother’s day came and went without even the slightest mention of how great my mom is (trust me, she is!). I also didn’t tell you how great the annual Mother’s Day Tea Party was - btw, it was great. Then Father’s day came and went - again with absolutely no mention of what a great father I have or what a great father Steve is or really any mention of greatness anywhere in the father kingdom.

Even worse than failing to mention Mother or Father’s day was the glaring omission about the closing of Steve’s Transmission Shop. Yep. Remember this and how it transformed into this? After many months it started looking like this. It continued to look like that for many many weeks afterward. I just couldn’t bring myself to clean that stupid garage AGAIN!But,then I caved and now it is clean and tidy once again. I give it about a month before some other project takes over and turns it back into the garage from hell again.

There were many things I would have written about if it weren’t for my self-imposed gag order. Things like how some teenagers turn into teenassers as they prepare to leave home. Or how challenging it can sometimes be when an adult child moves back home. Or perhaps I would have shared some info on a certain someone’s first girlfriend. Or just maybe I could have spilled the beans about a certain someone’s crush returning their interest. But I didn’t.

Even more important were the things I should have written about. My poor parents are still waiting to see pictures of Amber graduating from college and April & Jon graduating from high school. My grandson came to visit for a week and I didn’t brag even one time about how absolutely adorable he is or tell you about any of the funny antics he got up to like when he was apparently so disgusted with his own body odor that he felt the need to use an entire can of Arrid XX Dry to cover it up. I’ve uploaded many of those pictures to my Flickr site and will get the rest of them up there soon (I promise!)

I probably never mentioned that Vicki has moved into a new apartment with one of her friends. And there may be scores of readers just waiting for news about Amber’s interview in Wichita- like how did it go (Excellent!), did she get the job (Yes!), does it pay well (Yes!). We helped her move into a little apartment in Wichita a couple of weeks ago.

Did I mention that I also started a new job? No? Hmmm…well I did. I’m no longer a SAHM. I’m working here. I am hopeful that this new job will save my sanity. Already, the routine of getting up each morning with somewhere to go and something to do besides cleaning and laundry has brightened my outlook on life.

Sadly, there are probably many more stories that will go untold and questions that will go unanswered, curiosity left unappeased because I have neglected you for so long. I will try to do better :-(

That’s your mother calling - not Hollywood

Posted on May 1st, 2008 in Daily, Kids, School Days by virginia

Have I got a treat for you guys - 2 posts in one week! Woo Hoo!

script.jpgA couple of weeks ago, our house was turned into a movie set for a school assignment. My youngest was pressed into service as a cast member and my son Jon tried out his skills as an actor. Let’s just say that Hollywood isn’t missing out on anything and that college is a much better fit for his skills.

Not that he was that terrible. In fact, he made me laugh out loud several times. Mostly because of the role he played - a lazy gamer boy living in his mom’s basement. Hmmm. Type casting? Not quite yet but if he’s still down there in 5 years …

Another thing in the movie that made me laugh was the eerie resemblance of the movie Johnny’s attitude to my own son’s attitude. Those looks? Those smucky comments? Practiced in real life frequently.

Also? The farmer, Violet beating on Jon and of course, the trans-gendered girlfriend. Funny.

Check it out… Johnny’s Day

It’s a fairly large file - too long for YouTube - but be patient, it’s worth a few laughs.

Smart…and looks good in a suit too

Posted on January 31st, 2008 in Daily, Kids, School Days by virginia

Jon took 4 days off this past weekend to geek it up from one side of Missouri to the other.

First he headed to Kansas City with his Physics Club to compete in a Science Knowledge Bowl at Rockhurst University. Although they won all 5 of their rounds, they didn’t place as well as they had hoped (placing determined by percentage method rather than win/loss), placing 32nd out of 90. He did get a trip to the Science Museum and a cool new t-shirt out of the deal so all was not lost.

We The People Competition

Then he headed to Jefferson City for a couple of days to compete in the state We The People Hearings.

Jon’s Constitution Team consists of six groups of 4 students each that specialize in different areas of the constitution. Jon’s group specialized in Unit 4: How Have the Protections of the Bill of Rights Been Developed and Expanded?

Teams spend the day discussing historical and current constitutional issues in mock congressional hearings. During each round of the competition, the team has to be ready to respond to a variety of questions having to do with American government.

For example, one set of questions addressed by Jon’s unit this year was: A political scientist argues that we have made all the  constitutional changes necessary to expand suffrage. What we need to do now is to foster the civic norms that increase citizen participation. Do you agree or disagree with that argument? Why?
• What are the major constitutional changes that have expanded the right to vote? Are
more needed?
• What are civic norms that increase participation and how can they be encouraged?

Judges for the competition are drawn from lawyers and judges from the state of Missouri and have included the Missouri Supreme Court Chief Justice, state and federal appeals court judges and the like in previous years. Jon couldn’t remember who was on the panel this year. I imagine he was focused on remembering other stuff.

Judges rate each unit/team’s responses and select the:

BEST UNIT from each High School Team: Joplin High School Unit IV (Jon’s unit)

BEST UNIT for each focus area: Joplin High School won Best Unit IV overall (Jon’s unit)

BEST TEAM overall: Joplin High School placed 2nd beaten out by Westminster Christian Academy who has won for the past humpteen-gazillion years.

Woot! Go Jon!

…Braggity McBragger signing off…

4th Grade Politics are brutal

Posted on January 17th, 2008 in Daily, Kids, School Days by virginia

It’s reelection time in Violet’s classroom. She’s the incumbent and wanted to keep it that way. Her VP Matt, however, decided to pull a Thomas Jefferson* and launched his own campaign against her.

There was lots of shuffling around of possible candidate pairs. The current VP changed his running mate at least 3 times. The result of all of this “Will you be my running mate” shuffling was that most of the class decided “Hey! I’d like to be president too!” Of the 14 children in Violet’s class, 8 of them campaigned for Pres/VP.

That left only 6 votes to campaign for - although it might have been possible to get other nominees to vote for her. One boy running for VP did tell Violet that he wasn’t voting for himself but for another girl. Hmmm, apparently he didn’t learn that all important lesson about always voting for yourself. On the opposite end of that spectrum was the child who voted for himself 20 times! Note to future ballot stuffers - never cast more votes than there are voters. It’s a dead giveaway.

Violet tried a somewhat sneaky strategy by choosing a boy as her running mate who was friends with some of the uncommitted 6 votes. In the end, neither she nor Matt won the election. They just couldn’t beat out the girl who promised to bring snacks for the class every week.

*Presidential Trivia: Thomas Jefferson was the only person to serve one term as vice president [John Adams 1797-1801] and two terms as president, 1801 to 1809. In addition Jefferson was the only incumbent VP to run against an incumbent president.

Merry Christmas flavored vegetable soup

Posted on December 26th, 2007 in Daily, Special Days, Kids, School Days by virginia

I have got to get back into the habit of updating this site more often - every 9 to 10 days just isn’t cutting it. Too many stories back up. Here’s the rundown on what’s been going on around here…

Scrub-a-dub-dub

Remember my clean garage that was transformed into Steve’s Transmission Shop? Progress is being made on the transmission overhaul slowly but surely. When Vicki came over on Sunday for dinner, Steve enlisted her help with cleaning all the parts. It’s become a regular thing - Vic comes over for food and laundry, we get to visit with her and she goes home clean and full. It’s a win-win for everyone. This week she went home full but definitely not clean. Days later she said she could still smell the engine degreaser on her hands and that her shirt and pants would never be the same. I am hopeful that the Breeze will be ready to exit the garage soon.

On Monday (the 17th) we were treated to our annual Band Christmas concert. This year’s concert was once again a full band concert with the beginning students playing right along with the more advanced players. That is always a treat The kidsbut was especially wonderful since all of the kids were out of school the week prior due to the ice storm and no one had used those days off to practice. The annual Christmas concert is also when senior band students and their parents are recognized for their accomplishments. Steve and I usually find this part of the evening very tedious - every student is called to come forward, a long list of their accomplishments and future plans is read, their parents come up and get recognized, blah blah blah. It generally adds at least an hour to an already long evening and truthfully, most audience members aren’t very interested unless they have children being recognized. This year, Steve and I stood in the spotlight smiling as our children bored the audience for quite a long time - both April and Jon are seniors.

Rat poster for Science classTuesday night we spent the evening helping Violet with her science project. She had to do a research paper on an animal. Violet picked rats! She wanted meerkats but someone else had already taken them. So, of course, rats are the next best thing. She did a lot of research, wrote her report, etc and the final item she needed was a poster that had to be “creative and informative”. She came up with a great idea but needed a little help with sketching out the shape of the rat. Her poster turned out very cute, don’t you think?

Wednesday (the 19th) I finished all my Christmas shopping and we finally got theSteve gets the tree assembled and puts on the lights Christmas tree up. That is actually earlier than in some years. Getting the tree and decorations down from the attic wasn’t very easy what with the Breeze being in the way of letting down the attic steps. I had to do this intricate acrobatic, tarzan-swinging, ladder-climbing manuever to get to them.

Holy cow we need a new tree! Our branches are looking a little ratty. There are a few branches that look like we stole them from Charlie Brown’s tree. Our tree deserves to be retired though - it’s quite old. We’ve had it for at least 8 years and Steve’s parents used it for a long time before that (decades!). Time to put it to rest. A new tree is definitely something I should be looking for at the after Christmas sales.

O Christmas Tree

Once we got all the lights, tinsel and ornaments on though, a magical transformation had taken place and the tree looked very lovely.

Thursday morning I was able to get all of the Christmas presents wrapped and/or packaged for mailing. It is amazing how much easier it is to wrap and pack gifts when you can spread all your supplies out on the dining room table instead of huddling in secret on the floor or bed in your room. With the kids in school and me home, a chore I usually dread was actually quite fun. After packing every thing up I headed to the post office where there was NO LINE! I was able to quickly get my stuff off to various loved ones and was guaranteed they would arrive by Christmas Eve! Another chore I usually dread that turned out to be easy and painless this year.

Thursday afternoon was Violet’s Christmas musical. It was very cute. Violet was a snowman and had a small speaking role and a solo. All of the 3rd and 4th grade students had singing parts and/or speaking parts but only Violet and Mrs Claus had solos. I could tell she was nervous about singing alone but she did a fine job. I taped the snowman portion of the program and uploaded it to YouTube for your enjoyment. I really need to get a real video camera instead of using my little digital camera for these type of things. Hope you don’t get vertigo from my camera handling techniques.

Friday we made fudge and delivered it to all of our neighbors with an invitation to an impromptu Christmas Eve Open House. I made an incredibly delicious cinnamon chocolate walnut fudge and I also made a batch of Ernie Burleson’s yummy peanut butter fudge. Turns out one of my neighbors is allergic to peanuts. I never even thought about that. I guess next year I’ll make something less likely to cause someone to end up in the emergency room! Maybe I’ll make this peppermint bark. It looks like something Violet would like to help with and looks yummy too. Or maybe I should make something like this spice cake which is completely anti-allergic since it is gluten, dairy, egg and nut free and yet apparently still tastes good. After cleaning up the mess from all that fudge making, I was so glad we had plans to eat dinner with friends that night. Baking and cooking is something I really like to do - cleaning up, not so much.

On Saturday morning, I drove Amber and April to the airport in Springfield. That was really weird. In the past, the girls have always traveled with an escort from the airline. This year, though, we agreed that April wouldn’t need an escort. She’s 18 and is traveling with Amber (who is 23). Here’s the weird part - I wasn’t able to go through the security gate this time. Usually I get to have a gate pass. Now, I have to stand on the wrong side of the glass and wave to them from afar. Just another one of those milestones that reminds you that they are growing up and away.

Sunday we spent the day baking for our Christmas Eve shindig and for Christmas day dinner. We got kind of a scare that morning. On the way home from Mass, Steve noticed a huge black smoke cloud hanging over our neighborhood. Steve was sure it was from a house fire. The closer we got the more it looked like the burning house was on our street - I was really nervous that it was our house. We had left Jon sleeping in his room in the basement. I know how soundly he sleeps and was afraid he would not have heard the smoke detector if it had gone off. It turned out to be a house fairly close to ours but not on our street. Garage fire. Gutted most of the living space before it was finally put out. What a horrible thing to happen anytime but that family’s Christmas was certainly ruined.

Later that night we celebrated the last Sunday of Advent. I love celebrating Advent - it sort of spreads out the anticipation of Christmas and keeps everyone focused on the real reason for the celebration. Our family does a calendar as well as an Advent wreath. We light the candles, read a passage, and then sing carols while eating cookies and sipping eggnog. Mmmm.

Violet, Sara, Kayleigh & Miley playing dressupMonday started at 5 am and was crazy hectic what with last minute preparations for Christmas and our open house. Nothing new there - we’ve always had very full Christmas eves. When we lived by my parents we spent the evening with them. When we lived in Green Bay we spent the evening with Steve’s parents and always stopped by Grandma K’s open house extravaganza. Even when we’ve lived far away from relatives, Christmas Eve was always filled with lots of laughter, music, munchies and fun. When you have 6 kids you always have enough for a party. This year, though, we didn’t have all the kids. Steph and Alex went home to be with Eric. Amber and April were in Georgia to celebrate at May’s. Vicki doesn’t live at home any more and wasn’t sure what her plans for Christmas Eve were going to be. That left only the four of us (me, Steve, Jon and Violet) home for the holidays. Not very festive. So we decided to throw open the house and celebrate with our neighbors.

I wasn’t sure how many would be able to come what with the short notice and their own holiday plans but amazingly most of them were able to come. It seems like there are a lot of people out there who don’t have a lot of relatives close by to celebrate with. Originally the open house was supposed to be from 7 to 10 pm but we ended up shooing out the last of our guests after 11 o’clock came and went so that we could get to midnight mass on time. In fact, one of our neighbors stayed and went to mass with us.

More singingThe evening was a blast. We had tons of food, mounds of sweets and plenty of liquid cheer. Everyone just kind of milled around laughing and chatting. Late in the evening we sang carols accompanied on the piano by my neighbor Donna. Everyone said how much fun they had - we’ll definitely have to do it again next year.

Christmas day was absolutely perfect even though it started way too early. After staying up until 2:30 in the morning, I was not ready to get up when the kids piled in at 7 am. Too few hours of sleep. We got up anyway - it’s hard to resist their little pleas. We opened gifts, chatted with relatives on the phone, had a wonderful meal in the afternoon and enjoyed lazing about and taking naps the rest of the day.

Gift opening

I hope your Christmas was as wonderful as ours was this year. Merry Christmas to all!

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